Will You Be My Valentine-Dont Scare Him Off

You like this guy and are wondering how to ask, "Will you be my Valentine?" Love abounds this time of year and if you want to get to know someone new you need to slow down and breathe. It is exciting, I know, but if you rush right in and try to push yourself on him he will only be scared off.

My first piece of advice for you is to try to get to know him first. Your crush is cute but you do not even know if he knows you are alive.

If you really want to know how to ask a guy, "Will you be my Valentine?", you should probably introduce yourself first. Try casual conversation, at first and then find out if he is single or not. If he is then feel free to pursue him. Gently.

Once he realizes you might just be the woman of his dreams you can start planning how to tell him how you feel about him. You can plan the perfect date to celebrate the day of love and tell him over dinner. Just try to make sure the whole evening is perfect and you two are alone or in a quiet place so there are no distractions. Bring him a small gift that will remind him of you every time he sees it.

Hopefully, he will respond in kind since the two of you are out on a date together on this special day. Do not be pushy or come off as needy but when you are talking about your feelings, tell him you want the two of you to be exclusive. No dating other people. If he agrees then you have got yourself a new man.

When professing your feelings for someone, you might want to start off slowly and take your time. You might start the conversation with how nice you think he is and that being with him makes you happy. Just go with the flow of the day and when the time comes the words will be there.

Pay close attention to his face and eyes when you tell him how you feel. The eyes will tell you everything you need to know. If he is happy that you have these strong feelings then his eyes will light up and he will probably grab you up and plant a nice kiss on you.

If he is not so happy with this revelation then he will probably look down and away and do all he can to get away from you. This could also mean that you have blind-sided him and he needs some time to get his head around the idea. Give him his space and let him have the time to think things through.

You will be sitting on pins and needles until he gets back to you. Hopefully he will and then the two of you can have a wonderful relationship. And think it all started because you asked, "Will you be my Valentine?"


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