Not everyone is looking for a long term serious relationship. Some people are just interested in finding someone to have some fun with and spend time with. If fun dating is what you are interested in, there are some things that you may want to consider first.
For one thing, it is important that you are clear up front with everyone you date that you are more interested in fun dating rather than looking for something serious. No point in leading anyone on and giving the wrong impression.
Once that is cleared up you can have a lot of fun finding someone who you enjoy just hanging out with. For this reason you want to find someone who has a lot of similar interests as you do. Of course this type of compatibility is important for all types of relationships, but even more for a casual dating type situation.
When you are trying to think of ideas of how to spend your time together, just find activities that you both enjoy. It doesn't matter what it is as long as it is fun and you will both enjoy it.
It kind of takes away the "fun" part of the equation if you pick something that your partner doesn't really like to do. It needs to be something that you both like to do. So, step one would be to find out what you each like to do, what common denominators do you have in terms of activities that you both find enjoyable? Start there.
Once you've got that it's easy to plan dates. If you both like music, find local bands or symphonies that are playing close by. If you like music you can also go to vintage record stores to find some old records or discontinued cd's. Whatever it is, it doesn't have to be fancy or expensive, it just has to be something you will both find fun and interesting.
Sex is another thing you will both need to consider. Some people are perfectly comfortable with casual sexual relationships. If that is what you are looking for, it's a good idea to make sure whoever you meet is on the same page. Some people take a sexual relationship much more seriously, so again, it's important to establish the "ground rules" right from the start so there is no hurt feelings and misunderstandings.
Not everyone is ready for a serious, long term relationship and there is nothing wrong with that. Just because you aren't ready to tie the knot doesn't mean you have to be alone. Finding someone special to spend time with can make pretty much every activity more fun and interesting no matter what you are doing. It's fun to have that type of companionship.
If you are not ready to settle down but are just looking for someone for fun dating the most important thing you need to remember is to find someone who is looking for the same thing. Knowing that you are both on the same page is the most important thing.
