If you have had many failed relationships and just don't think you'll ever have a serious, long term relationship then this article might help you learn how to be a girlfriend. There are other options that you can take to help improve your current situation like seeing a counselor or reading books, but for now let's take a look at some tips that may help.
Firstly, you need to understand that there are two parties in a relationship and there needs to be some give and take. A relationship is not all about you and you can't always have things your own way. There needs to be compromise from both parties and if you find it isn't possible to compromise and you fight over everything then perhaps you are both too different to make a relationship work.
All relationships have disagreements so you can't expect everything to be perfect, there will be arguments from time to time. The idea is to talk about disagreements and make compromises so that everyone is satisfied with the result. This doesn't mean that you have to constantly give in and give him his own way all the time, it means that you both need to consider each others feelings and make compromises.
It isn't difficult to know how to be a girlfriend but it may take some effort to keep a relationship strong. The man in the relationship should also be willing to put in the effort required for a strong relationship. A relationship is a two way street and it isn't all your responsibility to make it work. If you are in a relationship with a man who thinks it is completely the woman's job to make things work, then that man probably isn't worth being in a relationship with.
It is also the man's responsibility to make a relationship work – it takes two to make a successful relationship. If one person in the relationship thinks that they always have to be right and always need to have things their own way, then the relationship will not last.
Most relationships start out great but after a while the initial romance wears off and both parties settle into their normal life and their normal habits and traits appear. This is fine if they are good traits and habits that the other party likes, but if one starts being selfish and insensitive then this is something you don't want to put up with. Life is too short to live in a relationship where one party is selfish and wants you to live life his way, you need to be happy and that may mean that you need to move on.
A good relationship will have good communication where the two partners can discuss anything and work together to resolve any situation. When you are with the right person you will know that they are right for you and they will want you to be as happy as they are.
A good relationship will have two people that care about each other and want each other to be happy. To be a good girlfriend you only need to be happy and care about your boyfriend's happiness. You need to be willing to make compromises and don't expect to have everything your own way all the time.
Compromise and good communication is all it takes to have a good relationship.