Are you looking to find the perfect man? Do you want a man that will commit to you and is also looking for a long term relationship? If so then try these five dating tips for women.
1. Don't talk about your ex on the first date.
One of the best ways to turn a man off on a first date is to talk about your ex. If you are forever talking about your ex then your date will think that you are either very bitter about your ex or you still aren't over him. Either way he is not likely to want a long term relationship with someone that still has issues about their ex.
Focus on this man that you are now with. Ask him questions about his life and his interests and show him that you are really interested in him and not your ex.
2. Be yourself.
Don't try to act like someone you are not as this is not going to win any points for a long term relationship. If you try to act like someone else that may impress the guy at first, but as the relationship develops, at some stage you are going to start acting like yourself and then the guy will begin to wonder who you really are. If you want a man to love you for who you are then you need to be yourself right from the beginning.
3. Don't start making plans for the future on the first date.
When you go out on your first date never start talking about your future together and definitely don't talk about marriage. Even though the guy may be looking for a long term relationship, talking about marriage on the first day will turn him off. Talking about marriage and having children with someone you don't even know is just unreasonable and unrealistic. You need to have fun and enjoy the date and wait until you begin to know each other before talking about the future.
4. Accept compliments from him.
If the man tells you that you look nice then thank him for the compliment. Don't get embarrassed and start talking about how you don't really look nice and this is wrong and that is wrong. Statements like that are just negative and no-one wants to be with someone who is always negative and can't take a compliment. He doesn't care if you're having a bad hair day or the top you wanted to wear was still in the wash, he just thinks that you look nice. So if he tells you that you look nice then say 'thank you' and be happy with the compliment.
5. Have your own opinions.
Some men like to be in charge and expect you to just share their opinion but men like that aren't really worth having a long term relationship with. You are your own person and have your own opinions and a good man will respect that, even admire that. You want a man to value your opinions and even ask for your opinion from time to time. If a man and woman can't respect each other's opinions then they can't have a good relationship. So don't start out agreeing with everything he says to make him happy, have your own opinions and I'm sure he'll admire you for that.
Keep these five tips in mind when you go out on a date to meet a new man and you will soon find the man of your dreams.
