Hey guys, want to know what women really think? Want some
dating advice for men by women and not some made up garbage by some advertiser who is just trying to get you to buy their product? If you're ready, read on.
First of all you have to never forget one very obvious, and I suspect often overlooked fact – all women are different. Let me repeat that, all women are different. Do many of them share some common traits? Of course, but each of us also has our own unique personality and experiences… just like you do.
If you really want to be successful at meeting women and having great relationships, you must fight the urge to lump them all into the chocolate eating, shoe loving, Chardonnay drinking category. I can assure you, not all women drink Chardonnay!
If you view, and treat, women like that you are really shortchanging yourself and missing out on an opportunity to meet some really amazing people.
Some other, really good, dating advice for men by women
is to treat her like you would like to be treated. OK, I know I just triggered a flashback to your Sunday school days, but it's true. If you wouldn't like it if someone promised to call you then never called, don't do that to anyone else.
If you don't want to have to deal with clingy, needy women then don't date clingy needy women. Simple and effective.
The truth is that we are all guilty, whether we are men or women, of not being totally honest about who we are and what we want.
While any of us could get stuck with the occasional well camouflaged dud, for the most part if you keep dating women who are needy it's because on some level that's what you like.
Don't get mad, it's true. Maybe confidant, independent women threaten you in some way. Maybe you are more comfortable with someone who is very needy. I don't know, but think about it. If the same thing keeps happening over and over again, it can't be called a coincidence.
Another thing to remember is that most women love sex too. But, for many women, it's not quite as easy to separate the physical from the emotional as it seems to be (I said seems to be) for some guys. Again, find out who the woman you are with is. Find out what she wants, what she likes and what she doesn't like. It's not really that difficult.
If you don't go into any given situation with pre conceived ideas you may just find that the woman you are going out on a date with really is fun to talk to.
The best piece of advice that any of us, man or woman, can get or follow is to just treat everyone with dignity and respect. When we do that, things tend to fall into place pretty easily more times than not. That, my friend, is some darn good dating advice for men by women.