If you are thinking about ending a relationship and moving on, break up conversation is often quite difficult to have. If you have no idea that the relationship is in trouble and your partner decides to break it off, then you might find it very difficult to listen to what he has to say. Regardless of who ends the relationship, if one of you is thinking of moving on, break up conversation must be done.
By having the break up conversation you may actually be able to save the relationship by discussing what the issues are and whether you will be able to fix them. Breaking up is difficult and it can be hard to move on without the person you have been with for so long. If you're partner comes to you and tells you that he has been thinking of moving on, break up is not necessarily the only outcome. There are things that you can do to try and save the relationship before it's too late.
When a relationship ends, if you look back you will probably realize that there have been some problems going on for a while. If you notice that the relationship is having problems you can deal with them and fix them before it reaches break up point. Good communication is essential in any relationship but particularly so if you are trying to save an unhappy relationship. You need to talk about your problems and let your partner know if you are unhappy about something. You need to ask your partner if he is happy or if there is anything he would like to change. Dealing with the problems early can help a relationship get back on track and avoid breaking up.
If you are trying to convince your partner from moving on, break up conversations should cover the following:
- Ask your partner why they are unhappy in the relationship and if there is anything specific that is making them unhappy.
- Ask your partner if there is anything that you can do to fix the problem.
- Listen to everything your partner tells you and tell him your feelings also. Try to understand his view and then try to make positive changes to deal with the issues.
When you have discussed the issues with your partner you can both then take steps to make positive changes to get your relationship back to what it once was. If you have had a communication breakdown then it is important to open up the lines of communication in your relationship. Without good communication you can misread the other person's intentions and misinterpret things that are done or said. You cannot fix problems if you don't know about them and sometimes just talking about your problems can open your eyes to something you hadn't realized. It could be something simple that you just hadn't realized and something that is easy to fix once you know about it. To save your relationship and prevent your partner from moving on, break up communication is vital.