If you have found yourself alone after a break up, you may be wondering what you can do to get your lover back. At the moment it may seem like it's impossible to get back together, but that may not be the case. Even when you think all hope of reconciling is lost, there are steps that you can take to get your lover back and improve the relationship that you had. If you play your cards right you could be back together very soon.
Let's take a look at four easy steps that you can use to help in your quest to get your lover back. Not everyone's situation is the same so you can adjust these steps to suit your situation. These four steps will certainly help to point you in the right direction. Many people have used these steps to save their relationship even when they thought that it was way past saving.
Step 1. Forget about the past. If you do manage to save your relationship you need to forget about the past. If you can't forget about the past then it will keep coming back to haunt you. Whatever has happened between you in the past needs to be dealt with and forgiven. If you can't forgive your partner for something they did then there is no point trying to save the relationship.
Step 2. Don't wait for your ex to make the move; there is no reason why you can't make that first move. If you wait for your ex to make a move then you could be waiting for a long time. You might be hesitant to make the move for fear of rejection, but you shouldn't let fear determine your life. If you love this person then be prepared to take the risk of rejection, you never know it just might pay off in your favor.
Step 3. Don't go overboard. Don't rush in and start doing everything you possibly can to get your lover back. You don't want to appear desperate and you don't want to annoy him by hounding him constantly. If you call your ex multiple times a day or text him 100 times a day, you will just become a nuisance and it will drive him further away. If you feel you need to call him then limit it to just once a day, you will be surprised at how much more effective one call a day is over twenty calls a day.
Step 4. Make yourself irresistible. Quite often when we can't have something we want it even more. When your ex sees you and you are looking great and appearing confident then he will be drawn to you. If you get out and have some fun and he notices that you are happy and vibrant, he will want you back before you know it. Don't spend too much time flirting with other guys to make him jealous as this can often have the opposite effect. Just have a bit of fun and show him what he is missing out on.
Don't give up home just yet of getting your lover back. Try the above steps and you may soon have that relationship back and be happier than ever together.
