Everyone wants to be loved. The need to be loved is just as important as eating and having water. Beyond friendships and communities of family and structure, is the need to be romantically involved. In today's society, romantic body language and relationships can happen between anybody, including those of the same gender. Because I can only identify with heterosexual relationships, I will elaborate on romantic body language between a man and a woman.

As a man, when a woman shows interest by looking at me for an extended period of time, I melt. I feel totally important and valued. I desire to be looked at and receive more romantic body language. Sometimes, a woman's eyes become somewhat deep and so focused, that one cannot look away. The staring between the man and the woman becomes a trance between the two with a telepathic message that reads, "Take me, I'm yours." On the other side of the token if a woman or man glance away from someone that is staring at them, it generally means they are not interested. It can also mean the person that looked away is shy, so the one that is interested should attempt to connect with the eyes again.

Romantic body language includes brushing, bumping or touching the other person in a safe zone, such as the arms, back, etc. A few years ago, a co-worker would often bump into me when she walked by. I got the impression that she did that many times subconsciously because she never looked back or apologized. I knew this was romantic body language because at times I would catch her staring at me from head to toe. This would stir me of course, but I had to restrain myself because I was married. I have observed when two people who have feelings for each other touch the other's arm for an extended period, etc. Whether they are aware or not, these are romantic body language activities.

It is also said, that when the opposite sex points a body part at you or leans at you, this is romantic body language. In other words, if a woman is sitting across from me, and she constantly has her feet pointed at me, this indicates she is romantically attracted to me. I've personally noticed women lying down with their body pointing at me when we are at a park with other people. Interestingly, they have eventually expressed a desire to be with me.

I remember in my High School days walking with a girl on the Coney Island boardwalk in Brooklyn, NY. We were newly involved as close friends but things were heating up between us. She began leaning towards me quite a bit when we were walking. At one point, she was on my right side. When I looked over at my right she was gone. I quickly looked over to my left and noticed she had lost her balance and was moving quickly in the direction she was leaning. We both laughed. But from that moment on, we held hands.

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Just because you've reached retirement age doesn't mean you've got to retire from an active social life. Mature dating is one of the hottest trends these days, especially when you consider how much more vital and healthy today's senior citizens have become. Years ago, people in their sixties may have been relegated to the old folks homes, but that isn't the case any longer. Instead, retirement aged people are enjoying a long and healthy social life, thanks to advances in health care and the fact that people are living longer, happier lives.

Hey, if you're a senior and returning to an active social life for the first time in years, you may think that you've been left behind. That isn't the case at all. Even though you may feel like you're a little bit "rusty" when it comes to dating, you shouldn't hesitate to enter the mature dating scene and kick your personal relationships into high gear. To help, we're offering these three top tips for mature dating:

1. At this stage in your life the pressure is off, so don't pressure yourself. Think about it: you're an active and vital senior citizen, and these days many of the things that may have consumed much of your life are behind you. If you're retired, then you no longer face the daily grind at work, meaning you have the opportunity to explore a mature dating relationship that allows you to spend even more quality time with your potential mate. Don't pressure yourself, instead take advantage of the fact that certain pressures — like work or career — are now behind you.

2. Don't worry about your age. Age is nothing more than a number. You've heard the old expression that "you're as young as you feel" and that's absolutely true. Think about the fact that you have the opportunity to enjoy many, many more active years and more exciting personal relationships. When you think about putting together a date with another senior, consider doing more active things like golf or tennis or even a trip to the gym. Let's face it, no matter your age, being in great shape is important, and that goes for the mature dating relationship as well.

3. Don't be afraid of technology. Computers, the Internet, cell phones, and all sorts of new technology is around us and we're exposed to it more and more every day. You'd be surprised how many people entering the mature dating scene are using technology to help them find a suitable partner. Whether it be an online dating site or simply chatting someone up via e-mail, technology is nothing to be afraid of and in fact may help you boost your ability to attract another person.

Sixty is the new forty, and mature dating is one of the things that today's seniors can experience and enjoy. Don't be afraid to take a chance on a new relationship, and follow these three top tips to help you have success.

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Let's face it, some men prefer to have a girlfriend that comes across as being, for lack of a better word, sweet. Granted, the idea of sweetness covers a lot of ground, but you can certainly be sweeter if you want to. We are not talking about being sickeningly-sweet or phony, but rather about having a certain kind of positive attitude.

Before you start making changes to be sweeter, you need to ask yourself why you are trying to change. Are you doing it because you want to make your boyfriend happy? Because you know you come across as a bitter and sour person and have wanted to change for quite some time? Or is it because your boyfriend has asked you to change? You should never be forced to be somebody you're not, so if your boyfriend is "making you" change, then it may be time to change boyfriends, or at least tell him to love you for who you are.

The next question you need to answer is what does 'sweet' mean to you? Think about other people you know that are the kind of sweet you want to be. Pay attention to how they behave whenever you can. Take note of what they say and do. What is it that makes them different? Chances are that they smile a lot, a somewhat demure and are polite. On top of that, they take a genuine interest in people and show they care in a number of ways. You may be surprised at what you observe, but take mental notes and try to do some of the things they do.

To be clear, we are not talking about being somebody you're not. Only do those things that you want to do, and don't let anybody force you to do something you don't want to do. That being said, if you are trying to change for the right reasons, but just can't seem to do it, then you may need to try a different approach. Instead of observing people you consider sweet, you may have to ask them for their secret. You need to do this in a way that doesn't come across as being weird. A good approach is to tell them that you think they are nice and that you are trying to be nicer yourself, then ask them for their secrets.

Another important aspect of being a sweet girlfriend is making your boyfriend happy. Now, that doesn't mean you should wait on him hand and foot, and do anything he requests of you (you are trying to be sweet, not a servant), however, having a cheerful attitude when doing the things you normally do will go a long way toward making you sweeter person.

Remember, how to be a sweet girlfriend has nothing to do with being a pushover. It is simply a way of showing your boyfriend that you care about them, and that they make you happy.

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There can be a fine line between confidence and rudeness; while few men would like a girlfriend that is rude, most men actually appreciate having one that is self-assured. How to be a confident girlfriend isn't something that a lot of people know about, and even fewer talk about it openly. That's a shame, because confidence is an asset, and an attractive one at that.

For the most part, men do not like women who are needy. Yes, they may like the idea of taking care of someone, but that only goes so far. Guys don't want to spend all of their time worrying about how you feel. Even though they are a part of the relationship, and they do care about you, they also have a life of their own and they need to live some of it on their own. Therefore, being a confident girlfriend can actually make your relationship stronger and more enjoyable.

Confidence starts with having a good self-esteem. If you have a low self-esteem, then you need to start improving it right away. Look at what the source of your current self-esteem is and try to fix it. You can read self-help books or talk to a counselor if you need outside help. Trying to be a better person is nothing to be ashamed of, so go ahead and work on improving how you view yourself.

One of the things you need to be careful of is to not let your confidence turn into rudeness or an ego problem. As you gain and exert more and more confidence, you may find that you occasionally act rude or egotistical. This doesn't happen to everybody, but it is something that you should be alert for. If you find it does happen to you, then tone it down until you are pleasantly confident.

Being rude, pushy, mean or downright negative is not what confidence is, so don't use those behaviors in an attempt to appear confident. How to be a confident girlfriend is a question that can only be answered from within. If you start acting in a negative way, then it's a sign that you are not as confident as you think. Instead, it's a sign of insecurity, and that means you need to work harder on building up your confidence.

If confidence and negativity don't mix, then it only makes sense that you need to stay positive. Practicing some basic principles of positive thinking will help you. Thinking positive will give you a way to handle problems better, it is not living in a fantasy world where nothing ever goes wrong. Stuff happens, and how you handle it will determine the eventual outcome. It may not seem like it at first, but thinking positive is vital when it comes to how to be a confident girlfriend. You can do it, and when you do, your boyfriend will be happier, and you will be happier too.

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Everyone instinctively knows about body language. People constantly evaluate the body movements and facial gestures of those around them. They might have even heard some tips about identifying certain body language signals. However, it may not be that simple.

If you are trying to determine what a person's body language is telling you, consider everything. Try to get an overall picture, not just a snapshot. If you focus on groups of behaviors you are more likely to get an accurate read.

Notice their posture first to see if they are sitting in a confident upright position. Or, they could be slouching, showing with their body language that they have little self confidence. Be aware of whether they are leaning toward you in a gesture of intimacy or leaning back reservedly.

Take a look at the angle they have set up between the two of you. If it is not side by side or across, it probably means they are uncomfortable with you. Note the position of their head. If it is tilted as you speak, they are showing interest by their body language. If they are looking down, they care little for what you have to say.

Pay attention to what they are doing with their limbs. If they are crossing their arms in front of their chest, they might be feeling defensive. If they stand or sit with open palms, their body language displays openness.

This feeling can also be presented by sitting with legs apart. The legs can show boredom in their body language when the person crosses the legs and kicks with the foot. If they are apprehensive, the ankles might be locked together.

Take in the movements of their eyes. Observe if they are looking at you overly long. This could indicate hostility or flirting, depending on other body language that accompanies it.

Notice whether they have trouble maintaining eye contact. This could mean that they are nervous, insecure, or don't like what you're saying. Their body language, in this case, can help you to problem-solve about what the person needs from you.

Make yourself aware, through body language, when someone is showing dominance over you. They may do this by standing while you are in a position where you must sit. They may do this by sitting back with their hands clasped behind their head. They may simply do it by the way they shake your hand. Palm down means dominance.

If any of these individual body language signals is present, look for more that denote the same. For instance, if a person is touching or rubbing his/her nose, don't assume dishonesty. Instead, look for other clues to back it up. The person might look up and to the right. They might also have micro-gestures that give them away, such as a nose wrinkle.

Looks can be deceiving. It's an old saying, and it can be true for those who try to decipher the body language of others. Reading body language is more complex than identifying a single behavior. It involves thought and consideration.

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Giving gifts is a great way to add variety and excitement to a relationship. Sometimes gifts are given for no reason but sometimes holiday shopping for the one you love can be even more exciting. The gifts you give do not always have to be store bought gifts. Here are some homemade gift ideas.

If you have been dating for a while you probably know him pretty well. Why not put together a gift basket with some of his favorite stuff in it. What you choose to put inside the basket does not necessarily have to be related, just choose some of the things he uses every day or try to find things that were his favorite from when he was little.

He will appreciate that you took the time to do some holiday shopping for the one you love and that will make the gift so much more meaningful. If you have chosen to make the basket full of the things he says were his favorites when he was growing up then you will give him a gift he will treasure always.

Here is another good one, a work survival kit. What does he do for a living? If he works behind a desk all day you could fill a basket with his favorite pens, a new tie, a nice new shirt, some healthy snacks, maybe an energy shot or two, a new coffee cup, and his favorite kind of coffee. Do not forget to include a nice picture of the two of you that he can keep on his desk.

Go speak to his mother. If she will give you some pictures of when he was little, you can make a collage of those pictures, frame it, wrap it and put it under the tree for him to open on Christmas morning. You could do the same with pictures of the two of you from a trip you took together or special times you have had. He will love you for it and put it up it in a prominent place where he can see it every day.

It will be a reminder of the wonderful childhood he had or the wonderful times you have spent together. If you do the childhood collage maybe he will relate some stories about what he was doing in some of the pictures. You will get to know him better through the pictures and the stories and you both will be closer than ever because of this one little gift.

If you like to knit or sew you could make him a new sweater or shirt. You most likely know what size he wears, or can find out easily enough, so it will be easy to pick out a pattern and buy the material you need. If you live together, keeping this a secret may be the hardest thing to do. Do your cutting and stitching at a friend's house or at your mother's and swear them to secrecy.

These are just a few things to think about when doing the holiday shopping for the one you love. Use your own imagination to come up with other things that you think he will like. He will appreciate the time and effort you put into making him these gifts.

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