Does My Boyfriend Still Love Me?

If your relationship is on the rocks and you are wondering, "does my boyfriend still love me?", this is the million dollar question, isn't it? When things are not going well in any relationship it is very easy to let all of our insecurities boil up to the surface and rear their ugly heads.

The best way to find the answer to "does my boyfriend still love me" is to ask him straight out. Try to prepare for the possibility that he does not. If he answers you that he no longer loves you then ask him to explain himself. Some relationships just do not last and your's could be one of them.

If he says he does still love you then there are probably aspects of your relationship that need some work.

Figure out what made you start feeling he didn't love you. Is he spending more time away from you? Why? Is he working a lot or does he have family obligations that take up much of his time? I guess it doesn't matter what the reasons are, the result is you feel lonesome and unloved.

It is obvious to me that if he still loves you, your relationship needs some serious tie and attention to get back on the right track. The best way to begin is to learn to communicate better. Talk to him and see if he feels the same way. If he does then ask him if he is willing to do whatever it takes to make the relationship better.

Do not, under any circumstances make demands on him and do not let him make any demands on you. If you work together as a team your relationship will have a much better chance of survival. If he agrees that the relationship needs work then you can both go talk to someone who is experienced in the art of putting relationships back together.

That may be your pastor, or a trusted teacher, or someone who has been through the same things you are going through now, or a professional counselor. Who you decide to talk to is up to you and your budget. You can even get advice online. Some of it is even free.

Before you decide to talk to anyone though, it would be a good idea to sit down together and figure out what the problems are. The best way to do this is to sit down when all is quiet and both take a sheet of paper and pen and make your own lists. When you are done go over them both together and see if things match up or if there are differing opinions as to what is wrong.

Try to work things out together. if you can, great! If you can't then it would be the time to speak to someone outside of the relationship and get some advice. After all of this work, if you are still wondering, "does my boyfriend still love me" then maybe the relationship is beyond repair.


 

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Secret Teenage Dating – Tips To Help Not Have Sleepless Nights

It's pretty scary for parents to think that their kids are doing things behind their backs. Scary, but all too common. The idea of your teen sneaking out in the middle of the night to go to a party, or secret teenage dating can be enough to keep a parent from sleeping… until their child is grown and married!

The problem is that with so many resources available for the average teen today, secret teenage dating is extremely easy to get away with, at least in the virtual world. Actually meeting in the real world can still present a lot of challenges.

One of the easiest ways to monitor who your kids are talking to and what they are up to online, is to keep the computer in a open spot. Don't let them take their laptop, or phone or desktop into their room and shut the door. They will get mad at you and probably yell at you and possibly even call you names when you try to "cramp their style" but who cares, as long as they are safe.

I would much rather have had my daughter (who is now grown and married, thank goodness!) mad at me when I tried to keep her form seeing a certain boy than to have something happen to her. I'm sure you feel the same way. Even though your kids may get mad at you there is a part of them that knows you are right and feel secure that you are looking out for them… they just won't admit it until much later!

Most parents are not comfortable with the idea of "spying" on their kids or tossing their room, though some parents have done just that. If that isn't your idea of good parenting than try another approach. Try to set up and keep open lines of communication with your kids from a very early age. It's true that your kids have to act in a way that will show you that they can be trusted, but so do you to a point.

When your kid screws up, and they will, how you handle it will go a long way in determining how, or if, they communicate with you in times of stress and crisis. If you didn't handle a situation well in the past, they are very unlikely to open up to you and trust you in the future. If you did handle something poorly and you don't want to permanently close the door on communication all you have to do, after you calm down, is to express your sincere apology over the way you handled things.

You don't have to say you were wrong, just tell them that maybe you didn't handle it in the best way possible and for that you are sorry.

Keeping a close eye on what your teen is up to is a daunting task to say the least. With the advancement of technology it has just gotten more challenging but as a parent, you still have a lot of control. Just let your teen know what the boundaries are, keep an eye on them and keep communication lines open at all times. Doing this may make secret teenage dating less appealing to your teen.

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Dating A Woman With Kids

There are plenty of things that can make dating interesting, and dating a woman with kids is no exception. While the main focus of your relationship, especially at first, will be you and her, there is no question that her children will play a role.

Something to keep in mind is that single mothers typically have a harder time finding dates, or even dating at all. That doesn't necessarily mean that they are more desperate, but it does mean that they tend to be more appreciative of opportunities to go out on a date.

A lot of guys think that dating a woman with kids is a bad idea, and some refuse to do so. That's a good thing for you because it gives you the chance to meet some wonderful women who other men choose to ignore to their own loss. But kids alone shouldn't be the determining factor in who you are dating. It would be rather shallow to not go out with someone that is smart, funny and attractive just because they have children.

Of course there are some things that will be different, but they don't need to be a deal breaker. The biggest difference is that her kids can and should come first. So, if one of her children has a soccer game on Friday night and that's when you would like to take her out to dinner, you can be sure that she is going to watch her kid kick a ball around. That won't always happen, and she will have some free time, but just keep in mind that her kids are her priority.

There is a fairly obvious solution to these situations. You could–to continue with the previously example–make the soccer game the date and then go out for dinner afterwards. A lot of times the team will go out to dinner on their own and will be able to enjoy some alone time. However, if you want to show her that you care for her and her kids, then you could offer to take her and the kids out to eat after the game.

In theory you are only dating the woman, but you also have to make a positive impression on her kids when the time comes. While you're not dating the kids, how they feel about you will be important to the woman you're dating. Don't worry about this happening right away because chances are high that she will want to get to know you first before introducing her children to you.

With all of that being said, dating a woman with kids is a lot like dating a woman without kids. She still has the same needs and wants to have a good time. If you can provide her that good time and her kids happen to like you, then you will find that you are in a special and worthwhile relationship.


 

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Cute Things To Say To Your Boyfriend

Love is a wonderful experience that most everyone goes through. Your heart thumps whenever you think of your lover, you can not wait to be around them, it is simply a good feeling to have. Part of what makes being in love so good is that you found someone that makes you feel great, and you want to return the favor.

Once you find that special guy who will sweep you off your feet, you want to show him just how much he means to you. While he probably knows how much you love him, guys still like to hear it. They want to hear you say just how much you mean to him. So finding cute things to say to your boyfriend can be a great way to tell him how much you love him, and have a little fun while you are at it.

Every relationship is different and only you know what your man would like to hear most. However there are always the basics which pretty much every guy would love to hear his girl say.

1: "You make me happy." Sometimes being blunt is the best approach. You enjoy the time you spend with your boyfriend, he makes you happy. So tell him that. Make sure to say it in no uncertain terms that he makes you happy and that you love being with him. You can even follow it up with a romantic gesture such as a kiss for a little added kick.

2: "You are so cute when you do that." Another cute things to say to your boyfriend that can really get him going. Seems a bit corny but corny is sometimes good. If he does that thing you love, maybe a grin or wink, then tell him just how cute he is. He does it because he thinks you will enjoy it, so show him that you do enjoy it.

3: "I'm glad I fell in love with you." Sounds like something out of a romance novel but dropping this one every now and then can mean a lot to your boyfriend. Especially if you say it after he's done something to wow you, such as an elaborate date or buying you a fancy gift. Remind him just how much he means to you.

4: "I can't wait to see you again." If you are apart or soon will be, then this line can build up anticipation for your next meeting. It will have him thinking of you the entire time, anxious to see you again knowing you feel the same way about him.

5: "I love you." One of the cute things to say to your boyfriend you can say to your boyfriend, and the simplest. While saying something cute or corny is all well and good, sometimes the basics are the best. Telling him straight out that you love him and you want to be with him can mean the world.

In a relationship we all often know that our partner loves us and enjoys being with us. But we also enjoy hearing them flat out say that. So even if it is not all the time, sometimes just telling your man how great he is can be one of the easiest and best ways to keep that spark lit.


 

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Personality Dating – One Of The Newest Trends Online

One of the newest trends in online dating is what is sometimes referred to as personality dating. The idea behind this type of dating site is simple, after you fill out an extensive personality assessment you will be matched based on the answers you provided when you filled out your assessment.

The premise is that matching two people based on compatibility will have a much better chance of making a great long term relationship. There are many people who will swear by this method, others may not be convinced. It really just depends on whether or not you were able to find someone special for you.

In some cases, people feel like they didn't do a good job on this personality dating "test" and would like a do over. According to my research, this is actually possible. It will require some leg work on your part, but it isn't impossible. For one thing you will need to call the customer service department, which is not something they readily advertise so it may take some hunting to find the number.

Now, be warned, all my research has lead me to believe that this process will not be easy. For one thing you have to find the number which as I said above, can be a challenge in and of itself. Next you should call either very early or late at night. You will also need to be prepared, you may need to let the phone ring for a long time before anyone will answer. I read that some people have had to sit on the phone and let it ring for an hour!

When you do finally, get a customer service rep you will need to explain to them you want to retake the test. Persistence is key here because the first response you will get to your request will most likely be "no". It isn't their policy to allow people to retake the test but if you stay calm and persistent, and you threaten to close your account because you aren't finding the kinds of matches you wanted, they will almost always relent and allow you to retake the test.

If you happen to get a particularly uncooperative customer service rep and they absolutely refuse to allow you to retake the test, you can always close your account and wait a few days and sign up with a different email address. My research said that many people opt for this option and it might just work well for you.

I would say that the jury is still out on whether or not this type of online dating practice really is as effective as they say it is. I guess it depends on your personal results. It may work well for some and not so well for others. There seems to be a lot of weight on filling out your profile in just the right way. One "bad" answer may make the difference between finding someone special and just getting frustrated.

I don't know if personality dating will work for you or not, but you may want to give it a shot. Finding someone who you share a deep connection with might be a great start to a beautiful relationship.


 

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Cute Boyfriend Gift Ideas

If you have the perfect boyfriend and are looking for cute boyfriend gift ideas you do not have to look any further than your boyfriend. Just getting to know him well will give you all the information you need to give him a gift.

Gift giving does not have to be stressful. When you want to surprise your guy with something special or something a little different, the best place to look is at things your boyfriend likes to do.

If he loves sci-fi movies why not buy a couple of movie tickets to the next big sci-fi blockbuster. If you have the budget you may be able to find him a movie poster or something else related to his favorite movie.

It is football season, does he have a favorite team? If so getting him tickets to his favorite team's next home game can be a great gift. If you can finagle seats on the fifty yard line he will probably love you forever. If you can't afford expensive sporting tickets, you might get him a jersey from his favorite team, or a poster of his favorite player.

If your guy is into wines you can always surprise him with a great bottle of wine, or take it up a notch and sign him up to a wine of the month club. Or, if he likes beer there is probably a beer of the month club too. You know what he likes.

If your guy likes to play poker or to play blackjack once in a while a trip to a casino is a great gift idea. Most states have some sort of casino in them so you would not even have to go all the way to Vegas or Atlantic City. Make it an overnight adventure, most casinos have hotels attached so book a night and try not to lose all your money.

Some of you may have boyfriends that are a little more cultured and enjoy things like concerts, plays and museums or art galleries. If so, you have many gifts that are automatic. Buying season tickets to your local theater or concert tickets for his favorite symphony orchestra are both great gifts.

It does not matter what he likes to do, just figure out the things that he enjoys and find him something that is related to that activity. He would no doubt love a romantic night with you and some sexy lingerie, but he most likely enjoys your company when he is doing other things as well. So, the next time you buy him hockey tickets for his birthday, plan on going with him. You sitting next to him can be the best gift of all.

Since you know him best, it would be hard for anyone else to tell you what cute boyfriend gift ideas to use. But, I have given you some ideas of things that may be just perfect for your boyfriend. As long as you keep what he likes to do in mind when you go shopping for him, you can't go wrong.


 

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Boyfriend And Girlfriend Nicknames Cute Way To Show Affection

If you are looking for some cute, pet boyfriend and girlfriend nicknames to call each other there are plenty of ways to go about it. Whether it is something about their character that inspires you to come up with a nickname or where they were born or the type of car they drive. Nicknames can be very creative and endearing to those on the receiving end of them.

The first rule is to never offend. Do not pick a nickname that is hurtful or is derogatory. Doing this will most likely end the relationship and this is not your objective here.

Your objective in picking cute boyfriend and girlfriend nicknames is to bring you two closer together and create a bond between you. You could even create your own language, so to speak. People do this all the time. You might think that this type of behavior is slightly sappy and too mushy but if you were really in love then you probably would be behaving the same way.

There are quite a few ways to come up with cute nicknames for the both of you. Do keep that first rule in mind though or you might just get smacked. Ask their friends for ideas, too. If they have been friends since they were three then this friend may have some insight into their personality that you have not seen yet.

The first way to come up with a nickname for your beloved, and the easiest, is to find out if they had a nickname when they were growing up. Then just learn it well and use it often, if they even liked it. If they did not and it hurt their feelings in any way do not use this nickname in their adult life.

But, if they had a favorite toy or a favorite cartoon character you could just incorporate that name into all the others that you call them. They would do the same for you, I'm sure.

You can use the memories the two of you have created to find special nicknames for each other. Say you both went hiking in the woods together and came upon a waterfall. Your nickname for him could be something along the lines of 'Raging River' and the mist that created a rainbow in the sunlight could inspire him to call you, 'Rainbow'.

Another great source for coming up with nicknames is food. Just be careful not to get derogatory here. Fruit can be very inspirational. Peach, kiwi, kumquat, and apple are all good. Steer clear of calling someone a banana or a nut. This can be taken the wrong way by some.

Animals are also used quite often for nicknames. Panda bear, teddy bear, bunny rabbit, tiger and fox come to mind for suitable nicknames you can call each other. The list is long and varied when it comes to boyfriend and girlfriend nicknames. Be creative and you both will finally come up with one or more that will stick.


 

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On Line Dating Dangers – You Can’t Be Too Careful

So, lately you haven't been able to buy a date and are considering joining a dating service. There is a lot to know when you join a dating service on line and the biggest of these is learning what all the on line dating dangers are. If you have ever been on a blind date then you know how unnerving they can be. Well, basically that is what on line dating is like, one blind date after another.

You can't be too careful and must do what ever is necessary to protect yourself. When it comes to dating on line there has to be some measure of trust or else no one would ever do it. But, there also has to be a larger measure of caution exercised to stay as safe as you possibly can.

On line dating dangers include, but are not limited to, date rape, identity theft, personal property theft, and even loss of life. On line predators create profiles that lure potential victims right to them.

If you have been talking to someone on line for a while and are considering a real-time meet then there are some precautions you should also consider.

1. Never meet for the first few times in a private setting. Always meet in public places. On line dating services usually tell their clients to do this. People are not always on the up and up and there are some who misrepresent themselves on purpose to lure their victims to their demise.

2. Never get into your date's car to go somewhere else besides where you were meeting in the first place. This could mean trouble for you once you are alone in the car. Tell him you want to walk or take the bus to your next destination. If you drove your own car then just get the address of the next place and meet him there, too. Do not put yourself into a bad situation.

3. Never give out your personal information to someone on line. If you choose to meet and your first impression tells you that this is a good guy and you can start to trust him then give out your phone number. Keep your address to yourself just yet until you get to know him a little better.

4. Trust your own instincts and back away if you do not get good vibes from the beginning. It could just be nervousness on his part but that is why you should stay cautiously optimistic at all times in the beginning and do not put yourself in harm's way.

5. Do not keep the date to yourself. Tell someone you do trust that you have a date, where you are meeting the person and what time you will be home. You could even have them go to the same place you will be to discreetly 'chaperone' the date. If you can, use your cell phone to take a picture of your date and possibly even the license plate of their car, just in case.

On line dating can be a fun and rewarding experience, if you take it slow and exercise caution. Keeping the on line dating dangers in mind will help you stay as safe as you possibly can.


 

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Help For A Broken Heart

Break ups are difficult to go through, and it's normal for both people involved to experience a full range of negative emotions. Even if the split was handled in an agreeable way, feelings will be hurt. One of the main problems you may be facing is that the pain lingers for so long. What you need is help for a broken heart.

As mentioned, feeling bad is a normal response to a break up, but becoming clinically depressed is not. Even if it is normal, it needs to be taken seriously and treated by a qualified medical professional. You need to be careful because a lot of your friends and family will just assume you "have the blues" because you have broken up. That may be true, but it could be that you are actually depressed and need help. If you aren't sure, then it is always better to err on the side of caution and make an appointment to see your doctor.

Assuming you aren't depressed (or that you are being properly treated for depression) there is help for a broken heart. Perhaps the most effective thing is also the hardest. What we are talking about is giving it time. As time goes on the wounds start to heal. Of course the painful emotions can be hard to bear and you don't feel like waiting for the pain to go away on its own. There isn't anything wrong with wanting to speed things up, but try to find reassurance in knowing that your broken heart is only temporary.

Forgiveness is vital to curing your broken heart in a timely manner. If your ex wronged you in some way, then you need to do what you can to forgive them. The worse the offense, the harder it will be; but the worse the offense, the more important it is for you to forgive. Forgiving n ex can actually be much easier than forgiving yourself. The funny thing is that you don't have to be at fault at all, and yet you feel as though you did something wrong. Of course, there is always a chance that you were the guilty party, but whether you were or not, you still need to forgive yourself if you really want help for a broken heart.

Even though you may feel like crawling into a corner and never seeing the light of day again, you need to get out and live your life. Call up some friends and go out, visit a favorite spot or go on a quick getaway; whatever it takes to get out of the house and experience life. It may be tricky at first, but do your best to have fun.

As you can see, there really is help for a broken heart. Now, these tips are only the beginning, and they will take some practice. However, as you find other tips and follow through on them, you will find that you are steadily becoming more and more happy.


 

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Boyfriend And Girlfriend Horoscopes

Theory has it that anyone can get along with anyone else, anytime, anywhere. Depends on how well the two personalities mesh. So it really doesn't matter if two different people with two different and conflicting signs of the Zodiac get together. Their boyfriend and girlfriend horoscopes could help them get along, right?

Sure, the thing is though, conflicting Zodiac signs or boyfriend and girlfriend horoscopes may always find they are at odds with how the other one thinks. People with compatible signs will find they are on a much easier path than those who do not.

Many people rely on the Zodiac for figuring out who they are compatible with. Maybe not as many as there were back in the 60's when the start of every conversation when meeting someone new was, "What's your sign?", but still quite a few people are interested in what the Zodiac can tell them, not only about themselves but about someone they are interested in as well.

In simple form, The Sun signs that are 120 degrees apart on the Zodiac chart are considered harmonious and balanced. Therefore, they should have no problem getting along. So, basically you should get along very well with someone who has the same earth, air, fire, or water sign that you do.

For example, Pisces, Cancer and Scorpio are all water signs and should all get along very well. It just so happens that my mother, myself, and my son are all water signs. That would explain why we all get along so well together. I am a Pisces, my mother is a Cancer, and my son is a Scorpio.

Astrology and the Zodiac are all very interesting and if you read through the description of who they say you are you will see some similarities but some things may not exactly fit. You were raised by people, not a chart and so you will not doubt have or share some traits of those who you live with.

The traits you have may also depend on whether or not you are born closer to the cusp of either the previous sign or the subsequent sign on the chart. My mother was born on the cusp of Cancer and Leo so she has some tendencies toward being almost arrogant in some of her thinking and actions. There are also times when she does not think before she speaks and can be very hurtful. She has lost friends because of this trait.

Unless you are schooled in the ways of the chart and all it can tell you you will get confused trying to delve deeper into the Moon signs and Sun signs, and Which number the Moon is in at the moment. It can all be very confusing and overwhelming.

There are people who know their way around a chart and can "do your chart for you". I think it takes sometime to put together and when it is finished they can tell you what is in store for your life. The stars know all type of thing.

Most people are satisfied just reading their boyfriend and girlfriend horoscopes everyday to see the direction their lives are taking.


 

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