If you are longing for companionship and want to find your soul mate, then the world of dating is where you will have to turn. Dating is a vast and cumbersome process, there are nearly seven billion people on this planet, so finding one that is compatible with you can be a real challenge. This is why so many people have developed so many tips to help you in the Match Making Trade.
When looking at potential partners the very first thing you will want to keep in mind is compatibility. Ideally, you will be spending the rest of your life with this person so if you can not get along and enjoy each other's company, then your relationship is doomed to fail right from the get go.
Make sure you and your potential partner have things in common. They say opposites attract and that may be true, but that can only be true to a point. If you are total opposites, odds are you will not enjoy being with each other as you share no common interests. So even if opposites attract, it's the positives you want. They do not have to share every one of your interests, nor you theirs, but you should share some common ground at the very least.
The next thing you should keep in mind when working in the Match Making Trade is to go slow. If you have found a potential soul mate, and you share things in common and enjoy spending time together, then you do not want to ruin it by moving too fast. Take it slow, nice and easy, and let things progress from there. You do not want your partner to feel rushed or pressured into a relationship.
However, a word of warning, do not take it too slow. Extremes are always bad, so going too slow can be just as damaging as going too fast. Do your best to gauge your partner's responses and see if they are comfortable with moving to the next level or not.
You will also want to learn as much as you can about that person. Too often we will get caught up with their appearance and fall head over heels for superficial things without really knowing the true them. This can take time but you need to know who exactly you are dealing with, and not the mask they are wearing.
People will pretty themselves up and make themselves look attractive, both physically and personality wise (something you should do as well). But there comes to a point when you need to see past that and see the real them, you may be compatible with the prettied up version of them, but the real version may be too different to cope with.
If you are looking for success in the Match Making Trade, and looking to get your soul mate, then the most important thing you should remember is to be true to yourself. It may sound corny and over used, but it is true. As I said above, you should make yourself presentable but never become someone you are not. Accentuate your good traits, do not fabricate them.
