{"id":349,"date":"2013-03-01T04:17:42","date_gmt":"2013-03-01T09:17:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/relationships-without-apologizing-not-a-sign-of-weakness\/"},"modified":"2013-03-01T04:17:42","modified_gmt":"2013-03-01T09:17:42","slug":"relationships-without-apologizing-not-a-sign-of-weakness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/relationships-without-apologizing-not-a-sign-of-weakness\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationships Without Apologizing-Not A Sign Of Weakness"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"float:left;margin-right:10px;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" height=\"69\" width=\"53\" src=\"http:\/\/widgets.fbshare.me\/files\/fbshare.php?url=https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/relationships-without-apologizing-not-a-sign-of-weakness\/&title=Relationships Without Apologizing-Not A Sign Of Weakness\n&size=large\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowtransparency=\"true\"><\/iframe><\/div><div style=\"float: right; margin-left: 10px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-via=\"FlirtingFitness\" data-count=\"vertical\" data-url=\"https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/relationships-without-apologizing-not-a-sign-of-weakness\/\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p>\nSome people view the act of apologizing as a sign of weakness. That attitude can create real problems in relationships unless both parties have the same beliefs. If not, relationships without apologizing can be very stressful. <\/p>\n<p>Too often, one person in a relationship will think that they either don&#39;t need to apologize or that apologizing is wrong for one reason or another. <\/p>\n<p>Relationships without apologizing are fine as long as both parties view the idea of apologizing in the same way, but if only one of you has this view&#8230; good luck. <\/p>\n<p>To me, apologizing is not a sign of weakness. Personally, I believe that many people use that as an excuse to not apologize. <\/p>\n<p>But why would someone go to such links just to get out of apologizing?<\/p>\n<p>Well, I suppose every person has their own reasons, but in my experience, I have noticed that it tends to fall into one main category; insecurity. <\/p>\n<p>In my life I have known some people who refuse to apologize. I have figured out that the reason for this was not really that they thought they were right but rather they were ultra insecure. <\/p>\n<p>Since they found themselves lacking in some way, they were afraid that if they apologized, and basically admitted they were wrong, it would only prove their fears that they weren&#39;t good enough to be true. <\/p>\n<p>The idea that an apology is a sign of weakness is actually kind of stupid if you really think of it. <\/p>\n<p>Do you like to admit you were wrong? Is it fun to have to admit you were wrong or that you made a mistake? No, of course not. <\/p>\n<p>It&#39;s not easy to admit to yourself, let alone anyone else, that you were wrong and that you made a mistake. <\/p>\n<p>So, if you are willing to do something, like apologize, that is difficult for you, isn&#39;t that actually a sign of strength? <\/p>\n<p>So how can it be a sign of weakness when it actually takes a lot of strength and character to apologize? It can&#39;t. <\/p>\n<p>It is actually a sign of strength to offer a sincere apology to someone you have wronged in some way. <\/p>\n<p>The people who are insecure and selfish try to make it seem that they are &#34;strong&#34; by not apologizing.<\/p>\n<p>But in reality their lack of character and strength and their refusal to apologize just underscores how very weak and insecure they really are. <\/p>\n<p>The only real advice I can offer anyone who is in a relationship with such a person is to get out. <\/p>\n<p>If someone is that insecure and selfish, their unwillingness to admit their mistakes and make changes will just be the tip of the iceberg. <\/p>\n<p>It won&#39;t be an easy relationship and you will eventually find that the love you once felt has faded. <\/p>\n<p>If you see this trait in yourself, it is never too late to become the man or woman you&#39;ve always wanted to be. <\/p>\n<p>You can change who you are and the way you act and treat other people. It may sound odd, but insecurity is a learned trait. <\/p>\n<p>You can re-train yourself to have confidence and be more secure in the person you are. It will take time, but it is worth it and it is possible. <\/p>\n<p>Relationships without apologizing are fine as long as both of you are into the whole not apologizing thing. 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