{"id":340,"date":"2013-02-07T06:20:42","date_gmt":"2013-02-07T11:20:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/men-that-never-apologize-is-it-thought-of-as-a-weakness\/"},"modified":"2013-02-07T06:20:42","modified_gmt":"2013-02-07T11:20:42","slug":"men-that-never-apologize-is-it-thought-of-as-a-weakness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/men-that-never-apologize-is-it-thought-of-as-a-weakness\/","title":{"rendered":"Men That Never Apologize-Is It thought Of As A Weakness"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"float:left;margin-right:10px;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" height=\"69\" width=\"53\" src=\"http:\/\/widgets.fbshare.me\/files\/fbshare.php?url=https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/men-that-never-apologize-is-it-thought-of-as-a-weakness\/&title=Men That Never Apologize-Is It thought Of As A Weakness\n&size=large\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowtransparency=\"true\"><\/iframe><\/div><div style=\"float: right; margin-left: 10px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-via=\"FlirtingFitness\" data-count=\"vertical\" data-url=\"https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/men-that-never-apologize-is-it-thought-of-as-a-weakness\/\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p>\nThere is much conjecture, usually among women, as to why some (not all) men seem so reluctant to apologize. Is it true that men that never apologize view apologies as a sign of weakness?<\/p>\n<p>It&#39;s an age old dilemma, and it is not much of a secret, men and women simply do not fully understand the way we each think and act. <\/p>\n<p>But, the real question is this: do men and women act the way they do because of some pre -wiring and physiology? Or is it more because of the programming we get from the society we live in?<\/p>\n<p>I&#39;m not an expert but my money is on a combination of both.  We know that men can be capable of great love and sensitivity, yet for many men, they rarely show it. Why?<\/p>\n<p>I suspect that to a large degree it will go back to a few main characteristics of the particular man in question:<\/p>\n<p>1. How was he raised? What were his parents like? You can almost always bet that a man who had a more sensitive and nurturing father and mother will be more sensitive and nurturing too. <\/p>\n<p>If he was raised by a strong man (I don&#39;t mean a pompous macho man who is overcompensating for some perceived short coming) who is not afraid to open up with his emotions, he will likely be more like that. <\/p>\n<p>2. Is your guy secure in himself? If he is, he will likely be more willing to apologize. There are many who think that apologizing is a sign of weakness, but that doesn&#39;t make any sense at all. <\/p>\n<p>Since when is it &#34;weak&#34; to do the right thing even when it is difficult to do? We teach our kids that they should do the right thing no matter how hard it is. <\/p>\n<p>If our kids know it, grown men should know it too. <\/p>\n<p>It isn&#39;t a sign of weakness to apologize, that is just an excuse. <\/p>\n<p>3. Some guys are so embarrassed by their mistake they basically want to pretend it never happened. <\/p>\n<p>I read an article that said that since men tend to be more visual than women they won&#39;t apologize until they see your pain. <\/p>\n<p>In other words, unless you break down he won&#39;t realize he has hurt you and he won&#39;t apologize. <\/p>\n<p>With all due respect, bull.  I don&#39;t believe that. I believe men are much deeper than some primitive neanderthal. <\/p>\n<p>I believe men are perfectly smart enough to figure out when they have caused another person pain without having to &#34;see&#34; the results. <\/p>\n<p>So, I guess I&#39;m saying, that I believe most men are perfectly capable of recognizing their mistakes and offering a sincere apology to someone they have hurt. <\/p>\n<p>Men that never apologize are most likely just afraid. Afraid to admit to you or anyone else that they were wrong. 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