{"id":276,"date":"2012-06-07T03:50:31","date_gmt":"2012-06-07T07:50:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/body-language-in-marriages\/"},"modified":"2012-06-07T03:50:31","modified_gmt":"2012-06-07T07:50:31","slug":"body-language-in-marriages","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/body-language-in-marriages\/","title":{"rendered":"Body Language in Marriages"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"float:left;margin-right:10px;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" height=\"69\" width=\"53\" src=\"http:\/\/widgets.fbshare.me\/files\/fbshare.php?url=https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/body-language-in-marriages\/&title=Body Language in Marriages\n&size=large\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowtransparency=\"true\"><\/iframe><\/div><div style=\"float: right; margin-left: 10px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-via=\"FlirtingFitness\" data-count=\"vertical\" data-url=\"https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/body-language-in-marriages\/\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p>\nBody language is key in getting together with all kinds of people.  It helps you make friends (or enemies).  It can lead you into a romantic involvement, too.  If that association becomes a marriage, you can use body language to maintain and strengthen your relationship with your mate.  <\/p>\n<p>When you are in a happy relationship with your spouse, you will send out body language signals of wanting to be together.  You might do this by mirroring each other&#39;s movements.  If one of you sits one way, the other will sit in a corresponding way.  <\/p>\n<p>If you find that your bodies often face away from or at right angles to each other, you might have a problem.  You can consciously change your body language to help this.  Just angle in towards your spouse.  You may find that you will start mirroring your spouse&#39;s movements as you do this.  <\/p>\n<p>When you have been apart, it is important that your body language expresses your joy at being reunited with your mate.  Kiss with soft lips.  Hold the kiss a little longer than you normally would.  <\/p>\n<p>You should be concerned if you feel hard, closed lips.  It may also be a sign of trouble if your bodies barely touch during a hug.  Your body language would do well to include a full body hug, and with hearts together if you&#39;ve been apart for long.  <\/p>\n<p>You probably won&#39;t be contented if one person consistently walks ahead of the other.  When this body language occurs, it displays hostility or a lack of connection.  Try walking in step.  Hold hands with your spouse and give their hand a little squeeze from time to time.  This body language encourages intimacy.  <\/p>\n<p>You might think that happy couples don&#39;t argue, but the truth is that they often do.  The difference between their arguments and those of unhappy couples can be seen in their body language.  If you are in a healthy relationship, your torsos will face each other during an argument.  You will continue to make eye contact.  <\/p>\n<p>If people are miserable in their marriages, they can aim some pretty mean body language at each other.  One spouse might jab his\/her finger at a spouse&#39;s chest or bare his\/her teeth.  If so, this is threatening body language, even if no harm is intended.  <\/p>\n<p>A spouse might show body language that shows feelings of superiority.  The spouse may hold the head back and look down at the spouse as if he\/she is inferior.  A spouse may cross arms defensively or roll eyes sarcastically.  They might crinkle their nose at the other.  All the time, they probably aren&#39;t aware of the body language they are displaying.  <\/p>\n<p>If you want to demonstrate more constructive body language, breathe deeply.  Line up your body with your spouse&#39;s.  Drop your arms and lean in gently.  Nod your head as you listen.  In shaky moments, touch your spouse&#39;s arm or hold hands.  <\/p>\n<p>If you pay attention to the movements of your body and the expressions on your face, you can have a chance at a long lasting relationship.  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