{"id":235,"date":"2012-05-14T11:13:30","date_gmt":"2012-05-14T15:13:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/dating-for-fun-may-mean-one-thing-to-you-but\/"},"modified":"2012-05-14T11:13:30","modified_gmt":"2012-05-14T15:13:30","slug":"dating-for-fun-may-mean-one-thing-to-you-but","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/dating-for-fun-may-mean-one-thing-to-you-but\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating For Fun May Mean One Thing To You, But&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"float:left;margin-right:10px;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" height=\"69\" width=\"53\" src=\"http:\/\/widgets.fbshare.me\/files\/fbshare.php?url=https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/dating-for-fun-may-mean-one-thing-to-you-but\/&title=Dating For Fun May Mean One Thing To You, But... \n&size=large\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowtransparency=\"true\"><\/iframe><\/div><div style=\"float: right; margin-left: 10px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-via=\"FlirtingFitness\" data-count=\"vertical\" data-url=\"https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/dating-for-fun-may-mean-one-thing-to-you-but\/\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p>\nEven if &#121;&#111;&#117; are only dating &#102;&#111;&#114; fun &#97;&#110;&#100; aren&#39;t interested &#105;&#110; something more serious, &#121;&#111;&#117; still &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; &#104;&#97;&#118;&#101; more luck (and probably more fun) if &#121;&#111;&#117; &#104;&#97;&#118;&#101; &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101; &#34;ground rules&#34; set up first. <\/p>\n<p>I don&#39;t &#109;&#101;&#97;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; &#121;&#111;&#117; &#104;&#97;&#118;&#101; &#116;&#111; &#100;&#111; &#97; big list &#111;&#102; rules or anything like that, I &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; &#109;&#101;&#97;&#110; &#100;&#111; what &#121;&#111;&#117; can &#116;&#111; ensure &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; &#121;&#111;&#117; &#97;&#110;&#100; your partner know what &#121;&#111;&#117; &#101;&#97;&#99;&#104; expect &#97;&#110;&#100; &#119;&#97;&#110;&#116; from &#101;&#97;&#99;&#104; other &#97;&#110;&#100; the relationship. <\/p>\n<p>The term &#34;dating &#102;&#111;&#114; fun&#34; may &#109;&#101;&#97;&#110; one &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#116;&#111; one &#112;&#101;&#114;&#115;&#111;&#110; &#97;&#110;&#100; something quite different &#116;&#111; the other. To &#109;&#97;&#107;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;&#115; easier &#102;&#111;&#114; both &#111;&#102; &#121;&#111;&#117; &#97;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#111; reduce the risk &#111;&#102; hurt, strife &#97;&#110;&#100; misunderstandings, &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; talk about what &#121;&#111;&#117; expect &#105;&#110; &#97; relationship. <\/p>\n<p>Here are &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; I mean, &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; &#121;&#111;&#117; should probably decide &#102;&#111;&#114; yourself what &#121;&#111;&#117; &#119;&#97;&#110;&#116; or don&#39;t want, &#97;&#110;&#100; then talk &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; &#111;&#118;&#101;&#114; with whoever &#121;&#111;&#117; date so &#121;&#111;&#117; are both on the &#115;&#97;&#109;&#101; page:<\/p>\n<p>1. Fidelity. This is huge. Many people who are &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; dating &#105;&#110; &#97; causal relationship may also think &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; means &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; don&#39;t &#104;&#97;&#118;&#101; &#116;&#111; be faithful. They may think &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; are still basically &#97; free agent &#97;&#110;&#100; can &#100;&#111; whatever &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#119;&#97;&#110;&#116; &#116;&#111; do. <\/p>\n<p>Spelling out your expectations right from the very start, can be &#97; little uncomfortable but it can also save &#97; &#108;&#111;&#116; &#111;&#102; issues down the road. After all, if &#121;&#111;&#117; are &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; looking &#102;&#111;&#114; fun, &#121;&#111;&#117; &#119;&#97;&#110;&#116; &#116;&#111; &#104;&#97;&#118;&#101; fun. <\/p>\n<p>You sure don&#39;t &#119;&#97;&#110;&#116; &#116;&#111; &#104;&#97;&#118;&#101; &#116;&#111; deal with &#97; &#108;&#111;&#116; &#111;&#102; complaining &#97;&#110;&#100; fighting &#98;&#101;&#99;&#97;&#117;&#115;&#101; &#121;&#111;&#117; thought &#121;&#111;&#117; could date other people but your dating partner thought &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; &#121;&#111;&#117; shouldn&#39;t. <\/p>\n<p>2. If &#121;&#111;&#117; both agree &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; &#121;&#111;&#117; don&#39;t &#104;&#97;&#118;&#101; &#116;&#111; be exclusive, are &#121;&#111;&#117; going &#116;&#111; share your exploits with &#101;&#97;&#99;&#104; other or &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; &#121;&#111;&#117; keep it &#116;&#111; yourself? Are &#121;&#111;&#117; sure &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; neither &#111;&#102; &#121;&#111;&#117; &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; feel jealousy? And one other thing, both genders are very capable &#111;&#102; feeling jealousy no matter what &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; say. <\/p>\n<p>At the &#101;&#110;&#100; &#111;&#102; the day, &#97;&#110;&#100; at the risk &#111;&#102; sounding sexist, sometimes men can sometimes &#104;&#97;&#118;&#101; two different standards. They may think it&#39;s perfectly ok &#102;&#111;&#114; them &#116;&#111; date multiple people but &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; often think poorly &#111;&#102; any woman who dates &#97; &#108;&#111;&#116; &#111;&#102; men. <\/p>\n<p>If &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; describes you, &#121;&#111;&#117; really should take &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101; time &#116;&#111; evaluate the type &#111;&#102; &#112;&#101;&#114;&#115;&#111;&#110; &#121;&#111;&#117; are. If &#121;&#111;&#117; are going &#116;&#111; judge someone &#102;&#111;&#114; doing the exact &#115;&#97;&#109;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#121;&#111;&#117; are doing, &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; doesn&#39;t speak &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; highly &#102;&#111;&#114; the type &#111;&#102; &#112;&#101;&#114;&#115;&#111;&#110; &#121;&#111;&#117; are. Don&#39;t tell someone &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; &#121;&#111;&#117; don&#39;t &#99;&#97;&#114;&#101; if &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; date others &#97;&#110;&#100; then turn &#97;&#114;&#111;&#117;&#110;&#100; &#97;&#110;&#100; &#104;&#97;&#118;&#101; &#97; problem with it, that&#39;s not fair. <\/p>\n<p>So, dating &#102;&#111;&#114; fun can be&#8230; well, fun. 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