{"id":232,"date":"2012-05-08T22:19:00","date_gmt":"2012-05-09T02:19:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/adding-romance-doesnt-always-mean-roses-and-candles\/"},"modified":"2012-05-08T22:19:00","modified_gmt":"2012-05-09T02:19:00","slug":"adding-romance-doesnt-always-mean-roses-and-candles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/adding-romance-doesnt-always-mean-roses-and-candles\/","title":{"rendered":"Adding Romance Doesn&#8217;t Always Mean Roses and Candles"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"float:left;margin-right:10px;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" height=\"69\" width=\"53\" src=\"http:\/\/widgets.fbshare.me\/files\/fbshare.php?url=https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/adding-romance-doesnt-always-mean-roses-and-candles\/&title=Adding Romance Doesn&#039;t Always Mean Roses and Candles\n&size=large\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowtransparency=\"true\"><\/iframe><\/div><div style=\"float: right; margin-left: 10px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-via=\"FlirtingFitness\" data-count=\"vertical\" data-url=\"https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/adding-romance-doesnt-always-mean-roses-and-candles\/\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p>\nWhen &#109;&#111;&#115;&#116; of &#117;&#115; think of &#116;&#104;&#101; word romance, we think of love, &#109;&#97;&#107;&#105;&#110;&#103; love and &#104;&#97;&#118;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#97;&#110; incredible connection with another person. When &#109;&#111;&#115;&#116; of &#117;&#115; wonder how we &#99;&#97;&#110; add romance &#116;&#111; &#111;&#117;&#114; relationship, we often think of sexy nights filled with lingerie, soft music and wine. But is that it? Not that there is anything wrong with &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; version, but is that &#116;&#104;&#101; only option we have? Personally, I don&#39;t think so. <\/p>\n<p>I&#39;m &#110;&#111;&#116; sure if I could be considered &#116;&#104;&#101; &#109;&#111;&#115;&#116; romantic person around. I think I am, but &#119;&#104;&#111; knows? To me, romance is about a deep connection with &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#111;&#110;&#101; else. A connection that &#103;&#111;&#101;&#115; beyond &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; lingerie and wine. <\/p>\n<p>I think that anytime &#116;&#119;&#111; people &#119;&#104;&#111; love &#101;&#97;&#99;&#104; other are able &#116;&#111; spend time together doing activities that they &#98;&#111;&#116;&#104; enjoy, that &#99;&#97;&#110; be a &#102;&#111;&#114;&#109; of romance. True, it isn&#39;t necessarily &#116;&#104;&#101; type of romance that &#103;&#101;&#116;&#115; written about but that doesn&#39;t mean it can&#39;t be romantic for &#116;&#104;&#101; couple. <\/p>\n<p>If you think about it, &#116;&#104;&#101; good memories that we &#104;&#111;&#108;&#100; throughout &#111;&#117;&#114; lifetime involve &#116;&#119;&#111; major themes: doing something we enjoy and\/ &#111;&#114; being with &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#111;&#110;&#101; we love. When you combine &#116;&#104;&#101; something you enjoy with &#116;&#104;&#101; &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#111;&#110;&#101; you love, I think that is perfect and I think that &#99;&#97;&#110; be &#97;&#110; (often overlooked) &#119;&#97;&#121; &#116;&#111; add romance &#116;&#111; any relationship. <\/p>\n<p>Of course, &#116;&#104;&#101; important distinction &#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; is that is has &#116;&#111; be something you &#98;&#111;&#116;&#104; enjoy. It&#39;s &#110;&#111;&#116; &#114;&#101;&#97;&#108;&#108;&#121; romantic if you &#119;&#97;&#110;&#116; &#116;&#111; go hunting and &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; partner hates &#116;&#111; hunt. Even if &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; partner agrees &#116;&#111; go, &#116;&#104;&#101; romance will be lost &#111;&#110; her. <\/p>\n<p>So, pick these &#34;non traditional&#34; romantic gestures carefully. Don&#39;t delude yourself into believing that &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; partner enjoys a certain activity when you know darn well, even if you don&#39;t &#119;&#97;&#110;&#116; &#116;&#111; admit it &#116;&#111; yourself, that they don&#39;t. <\/p>\n<p>Another aspect of something that is romantic, &#97;&#103;&#97;&#105;&#110; &#105;&#110; &#109;&#121; opinion, is something out of &#116;&#104;&#101; ordinary. Years ago I knew a couple (to be honest they were a little weird) &#119;&#104;&#111; liked &#116;&#111; brag that they had sex every single night. <\/p>\n<p>As expected, &#116;&#104;&#101; husband bragged about it but when I asked his wife if she &#114;&#101;&#97;&#108;&#108;&#121; enjoyed it that much she said no, it had become more of a habit and wasn&#39;t &#114;&#101;&#97;&#108;&#108;&#121; anything hot and exciting. She said it &#98;&#101;&#99;&#97;&#109;&#101; a little &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; brushing &#104;&#101;&#114; teeth every night before bed&#8230; it &#98;&#101;&#99;&#97;&#109;&#101; routine. <\/p>\n<p>So, whatever romantic gesture(s) you &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; &#116;&#111; do remember that if anything is done too often it becomes routine. Something that is done often will &#113;&#117;&#105;&#99;&#107;&#108;&#121; lose it&#39;s intensity and &#99;&#97;&#110; become if &#110;&#111;&#116; boring than at least &#110;&#111;&#116; nearly as exciting. <\/p>\n<p>So, if you &#119;&#97;&#110;&#116; &#116;&#111; add romance &#116;&#111; &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; relationship, don&#39;t restrict yourself &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; traditional things (not that there is anything wrong with those, but you &#119;&#97;&#110;&#116; &#116;&#111; keep things interesting too). 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