{"id":158,"date":"2012-03-19T23:23:50","date_gmt":"2012-03-20T03:23:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/women-who-pay-for-everything-on-dates-could-be-running-men-off\/"},"modified":"2012-03-02T03:27:19","modified_gmt":"2012-03-02T08:27:19","slug":"women-who-pay-for-everything-on-dates-could-be-running-men-off","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/women-who-pay-for-everything-on-dates-could-be-running-men-off\/","title":{"rendered":"Women Who Pay For Everything On Dates Could Be Running Men Off"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"float:left;margin-right:10px;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" height=\"69\" width=\"53\" src=\"http:\/\/widgets.fbshare.me\/files\/fbshare.php?url=https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/women-who-pay-for-everything-on-dates-could-be-running-men-off\/&title=Women Who Pay For Everything On Dates Could Be Running Men Off&size=large\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowtransparency=\"true\"><\/iframe><\/div><div style=\"float: right; margin-left: 10px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-via=\"FlirtingFitness\" data-count=\"vertical\" data-url=\"https:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/women-who-pay-for-everything-on-dates-could-be-running-men-off\/\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p>\nWomen &#119;&#104;&#111; pay for everything on dates probably &#104;&#97;&#118;&#101; a lot &#111;&#102; different dates with a lot &#111;&#102; different men because &#115;&#104;&#101; &#105;&#115; scaring them off. If a woman &#112;&#97;&#121;&#115; for a date, especially &#116;&#104;&#101; first date then &#116;&#104;&#101; man essentially thinks that &#115;&#104;&#101; &#105;&#115; giving him &#116;&#104;&#101; brush &#111;&#102;&#102; &#97;&#110;&#100; &#111;&#110;&#108;&#121; wants to be friends. This &#99;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; be &#116;&#104;&#101; furthest from &#116;&#104;&#101; truth but that &#105;&#115; how &#115;&#104;&#101; &#105;&#115; making &#116;&#104;&#101; man feel by paying for &#116;&#104;&#101; date.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you &#97;&#114;&#101; successful, let &#116;&#104;&#101; man &#104;&#97;&#118;&#101; &#104;&#105;&#115; pride &#97;&#110;&#100; let him pay for &#116;&#104;&#101; first date. Do not even ask to &#103;&#111; dutch because that &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; send &#116;&#104;&#101; same &#34;I just wanna be friends&#34; message. He &#105;&#115; trying to woo you &#97;&#110;&#100; probably, hopefully, has a plan &#97;&#110;&#100; thoughts on how this should go. He wants to show you that he &#105;&#115; independent &#111;&#102; &#104;&#105;&#115; mother &#97;&#110;&#100; &#99;&#97;&#110; support you. OK, OK, this &#105;&#115; mostly BS but let him &#104;&#97;&#118;&#101; &#104;&#105;&#115; fun. No &#110;&#101;&#101;&#100; to tear down &#104;&#105;&#115; ego just yet, that &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; come in time if &#116;&#104;&#101; relationship lasts. <\/p>\n<p>Besides, letting him pay &#99;&#97;&#110; show you &#119;&#104;&#97;&#116; kind &#111;&#102; a man he really is. Pay attention, does he steer you toward &#116;&#104;&#101; least expensive entrees on &#116;&#104;&#101; menu? Do you get &#116;&#104;&#101; idea that he expects something in return for paying for &#116;&#104;&#101; meal? Do you get &#116;&#104;&#101; feeling he &#105;&#115; &#111;&#110;&#108;&#121; spending money to &#116;&#114;&#121; to impress you?<\/p>\n<p>Seems to me if he &#119;&#101;&#114;&#101; stupid enough to &#116;&#114;&#121; any &#111;&#102; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#115;&#101; things, especially on a first date then he doesn&#39;t think &#109;&#117;&#99;&#104; &#111;&#102; you &#97;&#110;&#100; you should steer clear &#111;&#102; him in &#116;&#104;&#101; future. This type &#111;&#102; guy &#99;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; be trouble &#97;&#110;&#100; you &#100;&#111; not &#110;&#101;&#101;&#100; any drama in your life so just finish &#116;&#104;&#101; date &#97;&#110;&#100; &#100;&#111; not accept &#97;&#110;&#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; one.<\/p>\n<p>Women &#119;&#104;&#111; pay for everything on dates &#109;&#97;&#121; &#104;&#97;&#118;&#101; their own issues, &#97;&#115; well. Control issues for one &#97;&#110;&#100; possibly fear &#111;&#102; commitment issues for two. Are you &#116;&#104;&#101; type &#111;&#102; woman &#119;&#104;&#111; has convinced herself that &#115;&#104;&#101; does not &#110;&#101;&#101;&#100; anyone in her life? If you &#97;&#114;&#101; then you &#97;&#114;&#101; missing out on a lot &#111;&#102; fun. Everyone needs someone &#97;&#110;&#100; you &#97;&#114;&#101; no exception. Fiercely independent women &#97;&#114;&#101; &#109;&#111;&#115;&#116; likely very lonely women. Find a good balance between your independence &#97;&#110;&#100; your &#110;&#101;&#101;&#100; for others &#97;&#114;&#111;&#117;&#110;&#100; you. You &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; probably be a &#109;&#117;&#99;&#104; happier person.<\/p>\n<p>A &#98;&#101;&#116;&#116;&#101;&#114; &#119;&#97;&#121; to handle &#116;&#104;&#101; first date situation &#119;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; be to let him pay &#97;&#110;&#100; &#107;&#101;&#101;&#112; &#104;&#105;&#115; ego intact then smile your sweetest smile &#97;&#110;&#100; tell him you &#104;&#97;&#100; a great time. Then &#112;&#117;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; &#111;&#102;&#102;&#101;&#114; out there that you &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; pay for &#116;&#104;&#101; &#110;&#101;&#120;&#116; date. If he &#105;&#115; &#97;&#115; progressive &#97;&#110;&#100; enlightened &#97;&#115; he thinks he &#105;&#115; he should not &#104;&#97;&#118;&#101; a problem with alternating &#116;&#104;&#101; paying for dates with you. 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