{"id":237,"date":"2012-05-17T09:44:35","date_gmt":"2012-05-17T13:44:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/dating-relationships-be-true-to-yourself-for-a-healthy-relationship\/"},"modified":"2012-05-17T09:44:35","modified_gmt":"2012-05-17T13:44:35","slug":"dating-relationships-be-true-to-yourself-for-a-healthy-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/dating-relationships-be-true-to-yourself-for-a-healthy-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating Relationships &#8211; Be True To Yourself For A Healthy Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"float:left;margin-right:10px;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" height=\"69\" width=\"53\" src=\"http:\/\/widgets.fbshare.me\/files\/fbshare.php?url=http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/dating-relationships-be-true-to-yourself-for-a-healthy-relationship\/&title=Dating Relationships - Be True To Yourself For A Healthy Relationship\n&size=large\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowtransparency=\"true\"><\/iframe><\/div><div style=\"float: right; margin-left: 10px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-via=\"FlirtingFitness\" data-count=\"vertical\" data-url=\"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/dating-relationships-be-true-to-yourself-for-a-healthy-relationship\/\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p>\nMost of us &#107;&#110;&#111;&#119; that sometimes entering &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; a dating relationship can be equivalent to walking through a &#109;&#105;&#110;&#101; field. We enter &#105;&#110;&#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; relationship with &#104;&#105;&#103;&#104; hopes &#97;&#110;&#100; expectations. Sometimes &#116;&#104;&#111;&#115;&#101; &#104;&#105;&#103;&#104; hopes &#97;&#114;&#101; realized, sometimes &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; aren&#39;t. <\/p>\n<p>If you &#119;&#97;&#110;&#116; to learn some simple tips to increase your chances of making any dating relationship you &#97;&#114;&#101; a part of much more successful &#97;&#110;&#100; happy, keep reading. I have compiled some simple information that &#109;&#97;&#121; be able to help you out. <\/p>\n<p>Now, I&#39;m &#110;&#111;&#116; claiming that any of this is new stuff, &#109;&#111;&#115;&#116; of &#105;&#116; is &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; common sense. But &#101;&#118;&#101;&#110; with common sense issues you sometimes &#110;&#101;&#101;&#100; a &#108;&#105;&#116;&#116;&#108;&#101; reminder &#111;&#114; you &#109;&#97;&#121; &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; overlook a few points. <\/p>\n<p>So, here we go:<\/p>\n<p>1. The first thing I always tell people who aren&#39;t currently &#105;&#110; a relationship &#98;&#117;&#116; &#119;&#97;&#110;&#116; to be is: work &#111;&#110; you first. I&#39;m &#110;&#111;&#116; trying to imply that anyone is a huge mess &#98;&#117;&#116; we all have varying degrees of issues &#97;&#110;&#100; baggage. <\/p>\n<p>Trying to identify &#97;&#110;&#100; get rid of &#116;&#104;&#111;&#115;&#101; issues &#97;&#110;&#100; baggage is best undertaken before you meet someone rather than during &#111;&#114; after &#116;&#104;&#101; relationship. For one reason, &#116;&#104;&#101; less baggage &#97;&#110;&#100; issues you have &#97;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101; more &#34;whole&#34; person you &#97;&#114;&#101; &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; dictate what &#116;&#121;&#112;&#101; of people you meet. So taking &#99;&#97;&#114;&#101; of your own business first &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; make &#105;&#116; much more likely that you &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; meet someone who is worthwhile. <\/p>\n<p>For example, let&#39;s say that you have a &#108;&#111;&#116; of lingering hurt &#97;&#110;&#100; trust issues &#98;&#101;&#99;&#97;&#117;&#115;&#101; someone &#105;&#110; your past cheated &#111;&#110; you. If you &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; try to push these issues down without really facing &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109; &#97;&#110;&#100; &#103;&#101;&#116;&#116;&#105;&#110;&#103; over them, &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; continue to haunt you. <\/p>\n<p>Whether you realize &#105;&#116; &#111;&#114; not, you &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; attract &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; people who have similar issues. You &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; likely attract people who &#119;&#105;&#108;&#108; &#100;&#111; exactly what you expect &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109; to do: cheat &#111;&#110; you. <\/p>\n<p>Fix &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114;&#115;&#101;&#108;&#102; first. <\/p>\n<p>2. Do &#110;&#111;&#116; underestimate &#116;&#104;&#101; importance of a &#104;&#105;&#103;&#104; level of compatibility. I&#39;m &#110;&#111;&#116; talking &#97;&#98;&#111;&#117;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; two of you agreeing &#111;&#110; everything &#98;&#117;&#116; rather &#116;&#104;&#101; two of you &#104;&#97;&#118;&#105;&#110;&#103; similar outlooks &#111;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101; important things &#115;&#117;&#99;&#104; as honesty, fidelity, respect, etc. <\/p>\n<p>If you think honesty is one of &#116;&#104;&#101; &#109;&#111;&#115;&#116; important characteristics a person can have, why would you &#101;&#118;&#101;&#110; consider &#103;&#101;&#116;&#116;&#105;&#110;&#103; involved with someone who doesn&#39;t have a &#112;&#114;&#111;&#98;&#108;&#101;&#109; with &#34;embellishing&#34;? 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