{"id":152,"date":"2012-03-08T19:29:38","date_gmt":"2012-03-09T00:29:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/should-the-man-always-pay-on-dates-old-school-rules-dont-apply\/"},"modified":"2012-03-08T19:29:38","modified_gmt":"2012-03-09T00:29:38","slug":"should-the-man-always-pay-on-dates-old-school-rules-dont-apply","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/should-the-man-always-pay-on-dates-old-school-rules-dont-apply\/","title":{"rendered":"Should The Man Always Pay On Dates-Old School Rules Dont Apply"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"float:left;margin-right:10px;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" height=\"69\" width=\"53\" src=\"http:\/\/widgets.fbshare.me\/files\/fbshare.php?url=http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/should-the-man-always-pay-on-dates-old-school-rules-dont-apply\/&title=Should The Man Always Pay On Dates-Old School Rules Dont Apply\n&size=large\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowtransparency=\"true\"><\/iframe><\/div><div style=\"float: right; margin-left: 10px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-via=\"FlirtingFitness\" data-count=\"vertical\" data-url=\"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/dating\/should-the-man-always-pay-on-dates-old-school-rules-dont-apply\/\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p>\nWhat &#97;&#114;&#101; the rules &#111;&#110; who pays for what date &#111;&#114; &#115;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; the man always pay &#111;&#110; dates &#110;&#111; matter what? Believe it &#111;&#114; not &#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; is etiquette &#111;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; and the guidelines will help &#121;&#111;&#117; both figure it &#111;&#117;&#116; who pays for what and &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#97;&#114;&#101; supposed &#116;&#111; pay for it, so &#110;&#111; one&#39;s feelings &#103;&#101;&#116; trampled.<\/p>\n<p>It is usually ok &#116;&#111; split the check. Some women feel &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; it is &#111;&#108;&#100; school &#111;&#114; even sexist for the man &#116;&#111; pay for everything and &#105;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; day and age she is right. Men &#97;&#114;&#101; not expected &#116;&#111; foot the entire bill for the date anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Should the man always pay &#111;&#110; dates? Customary rules state &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; the man is responsible for paying for the first and second dates &#105;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; entirety. Some even believe &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; the man &#115;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; be responsible for paying for each date until each couple&#39;s status &#104;&#97;&#115; &#98;&#101;&#101;&#110; confirmed. As stated though, these standards have become less stringent &#105;&#110; the past &#102;&#101;&#119; decades due &#116;&#111; the women&#39;s movement. Women &#97;&#114;&#101; &#118;&#101;&#114;&#121; capable these days &#111;&#102; paying &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; &#111;&#119;&#110; way and will not stand for a male chauvinist insisting &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;&#115; &#115;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; be the way &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; always have been.<\/p>\n<p>Consider this, he &#111;&#114; she who asks is the one who pays. This &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; seems &#114;&#105;&#103;&#104;&#116; &#116;&#111; me. If I was &#116;&#111; ask someone &#111;&#117;&#116; then I would be the one who pays for everything. Just &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; if a man were &#116;&#111; ask me &#111;&#117;&#116; then I would expect &#104;&#105;&#109; &#116;&#111; pay for everything. It is &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; receiving a gift from someone, &#121;&#111;&#117; would not &#111;&#102;&#102;&#101;&#114; &#116;&#111; pay for half the gift would you? No, I didn&#39;t think so. So, whoever asks, pays, plain and simple.<\/p>\n<p>If the first date went well and the initial anxiety &#104;&#97;&#115; diminished then &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;&#115; &#97;&#114;&#101; easy &#116;&#111; talk about. If &#121;&#111;&#117; asked her &#111;&#117;&#116; for the first date and then asked for a second one, &#121;&#111;&#117; &#97;&#114;&#101; the one who &#115;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; pay for the second date. Be careful &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; she doesn&#39;t &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; take for granted &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; &#121;&#111;&#117; will pay every time, though. <\/p>\n<p>Things do not always have &#116;&#111; be so formal, though. When the first date is over then bring it up as a matter for discussion. Come up &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; &#111;&#119;&#110; way &#111;&#102; doing things. There is &#110;&#111; &#114;&#105;&#103;&#104;&#116; &#111;&#114; wrong answer here. If the two &#111;&#102; &#121;&#111;&#117; &#97;&#114;&#101; &#103;&#111;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#116;&#111; continue seeing each &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; then it doesn&#39;t matter who pays &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; as &#108;&#111;&#110;&#103; as &#121;&#111;&#117; have fun and &#103;&#101;&#116; &#116;&#111; know each &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; well.<\/p>\n<p>If the matter &#115;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; erupt into &#97;&#110; argument then &#106;&#117;&#115;&#116; try &#116;&#111; be light and try &#116;&#111; &#99;&#111;&#109;&#101; up &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; a compromise &#116;&#104;&#97;&#116; will work. Do not sit and argue &#105;&#110; the restaurant. A woman who &#104;&#97;&#115; asserted her independence &#105;&#110; the business &#119;&#111;&#114;&#108;&#100; &#99;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; have a different, &#111;&#108;&#100; fashioned opinion &#111;&#102; dating. If so, then she will not mind &#121;&#111;&#117; paying for her night out. But, if she starts &#116;&#111; bring &#111;&#117;&#116; her wallet and wants &#116;&#111; pay for herself, &#108;&#101;&#116; her. Figure it &#111;&#117;&#116; later, do not &#109;&#97;&#107;&#101; a scene.<\/p>\n<p>Because the question &#111;&#102; &#115;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; the man always pay &#111;&#110; dates &#115;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; not be a deal breaker, &#101;&#105;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; way. 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