{"id":135,"date":"2012-03-01T22:15:35","date_gmt":"2012-03-02T03:15:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/thinking-of-moving-on-break-up-conversation-you-need-to-have\/"},"modified":"2012-03-01T22:15:35","modified_gmt":"2012-03-02T03:15:35","slug":"thinking-of-moving-on-break-up-conversation-you-need-to-have","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/thinking-of-moving-on-break-up-conversation-you-need-to-have\/","title":{"rendered":"Thinking Of Moving On  Break Up Conversation You Need To Have"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"float:left;margin-right:10px;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" height=\"69\" width=\"53\" src=\"http:\/\/widgets.fbshare.me\/files\/fbshare.php?url=http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/thinking-of-moving-on-break-up-conversation-you-need-to-have\/&title=Thinking Of Moving On  Break Up Conversation You Need To Have\n&size=large\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowtransparency=\"true\"><\/iframe><\/div><div style=\"float: right; margin-left: 10px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-via=\"FlirtingFitness\" data-count=\"vertical\" data-url=\"http:\/\/flirtingwithfitness.com\/flirting-dating\/relationships\/thinking-of-moving-on-break-up-conversation-you-need-to-have\/\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p>\nIf &#121;&#111;&#117; are thinking about &#101;&#110;&#100;&#105;&#110;&#103; a relationship and moving on, break up conversation is &#111;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#110; &#113;&#117;&#105;&#116;&#101; difficult to have.  If &#121;&#111;&#117; have no idea that the relationship is in trouble and &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; partner decides to break &#105;&#116; off, &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; &#121;&#111;&#117; might find &#105;&#116; &#118;&#101;&#114;&#121; difficult to listen to what he &#104;&#97;&#115; to say.  Regardless of who ends the relationship, if &#111;&#110;&#101; of &#121;&#111;&#117; is thinking of moving on, break up conversation must &#98;&#101; done.<\/p>\n<p>By having the break up conversation &#121;&#111;&#117; may actually &#98;&#101; able to save the relationship by discussing what the issues are and whether &#121;&#111;&#117; will &#98;&#101; able to fix them.  Breaking up is difficult and &#105;&#116; &#99;&#97;&#110; &#98;&#101; hard to move &#111;&#110; without the person &#121;&#111;&#117; have been with &#102;&#111;&#114; so long.  If you&#39;re partner comes to &#121;&#111;&#117; and tells &#121;&#111;&#117; that he &#104;&#97;&#115; been thinking of moving on, break up is not necessarily the only outcome.  There are things that &#121;&#111;&#117; &#99;&#97;&#110; &#100;&#111; to try and save the relationship &#98;&#101;&#102;&#111;&#114;&#101; it&#39;s too late.<\/p>\n<p>When a relationship ends, if &#121;&#111;&#117; look &#98;&#97;&#99;&#107; &#121;&#111;&#117; will probably realize that &#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; have been some problems going &#111;&#110; &#102;&#111;&#114; a while.  If &#121;&#111;&#117; notice that the relationship is having problems &#121;&#111;&#117; &#99;&#97;&#110; deal with &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109; and fix &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109; &#98;&#101;&#102;&#111;&#114;&#101; &#105;&#116; reaches break up point.  Good communication is essential in any relationship &#98;&#117;&#116; particularly so if &#121;&#111;&#117; are trying to save an unhappy relationship.  You need to talk about &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; problems and let &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; partner know if &#121;&#111;&#117; are unhappy about something.  You need to ask &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; partner if he is happy or if &#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; is anything he would &#108;&#105;&#107;&#101; to change.  Dealing with the problems early &#99;&#97;&#110; help a relationship get &#98;&#97;&#99;&#107; &#111;&#110; track and avoid breaking up.<\/p>\n<p>If &#121;&#111;&#117; are trying to convince &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; partner from moving on, break up conversations &#115;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; cover the following:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Ask &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; partner why &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; are unhappy in the relationship and if &#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; is anything specific that is &#109;&#97;&#107;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109; unhappy.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Ask &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; partner if &#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; is anything that &#121;&#111;&#117; &#99;&#97;&#110; &#100;&#111; to fix the problem.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Listen to everything &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; partner tells &#121;&#111;&#117; and tell &#104;&#105;&#109; &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; feelings also.  Try to understand his view and &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; try to make positive changes to deal with the issues.<\/p>\n<p>When &#121;&#111;&#117; have discussed the issues with &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; partner &#121;&#111;&#117; &#99;&#97;&#110; &#98;&#111;&#116;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; take steps to make positive changes to get &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; relationship &#98;&#97;&#99;&#107; to what &#105;&#116; &#111;&#110;&#99;&#101; was.  If &#121;&#111;&#117; have &#104;&#97;&#100; a communication breakdown &#116;&#104;&#101;&#110; &#105;&#116; is important to open up the lines of communication in &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; relationship.  Without good communication &#121;&#111;&#117; &#99;&#97;&#110; misread the other person&#39;s intentions and misinterpret things that are done or said.  You cannot fix problems if &#121;&#111;&#117; don&#39;t know about &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109; and sometimes just talking about &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; problems &#99;&#97;&#110; open &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; eyes to something &#121;&#111;&#117; hadn&#39;t realized.  It could &#98;&#101; something simple that &#121;&#111;&#117; just hadn&#39;t realized and something that is easy to fix &#111;&#110;&#99;&#101; &#121;&#111;&#117; know about it.  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